Garden Designers Roundtable: Our Home Gardens

In this month’s Garden Designers Roundtable, we have the honor of writing about our own personal gardens.

While this may seem like an easy post to write, it’s actually been quite difficult for me.   How can I possibly share my garden with you in a way that conveys all that it means to me?

While trying to think about what I’d write I was suddenly overtaken by the need to lie down on my soft and comfy patio sofa for a while to take a nap help me think.

As I lay there with my eyes closed, I could hear my canaries happily singing their little hearts out in the aviary my husband built a few years ago. Mixed with their songs, my oversized wind chimes gently bumped together in the soft breeze causing deep, melodic sounds to resonate throughout the garden.

I inhaled the intoxicating scent of the blossoms from my nearby orange tree, mixed with the nearby philadelphus and star jasmine that’s just now coming into their own.   It’s with these soft sounds and delicious scents that I drifted off to sleep.
When I awoke, it dawned on me that this is truly a garden that I’ve created just for me.  It’s warm and comfortable, filled with my very favorite scents and sounds that make my heart sing.  Everywhere I look there are mementos of my own childhood as well as my daughter’s.  There are flowers that came from my grandmother’s home, structures my father made, and stone walls lovingly created by my mother. It’s an intensely personal garden and one that I’m happy to share with you….I’ve been a part of this garden since I was 10 years old.  Fifteen years ago, after my parents moved away, we bought this home and garden and I’ve been reinventing the garden ever since –  keeping some of what my parents created while adding my own touches.  Nestled in the heart of busy and crowded Silicon Valley, surrounded with houses that are just a little too close, my goal is to create a garden that feels secluded and private – a place where I can lose myself for minutes or hours.Because my garden is on the smaller side I’ve had to make every inch count if I wanted to include everything I desired.  By incorporating meandering pathways, broken up with the occasional seating area, I’ve been able to incorporate many different areas (whether fun or functional) without having my garden look disjointed.  The side paths are casual by nature, mostly loose set stone or pea gravel. However, the unifying element is the the main connecting pathway consisting of mortar-less brick.  Having a consistent material for this pathway helps tie together the many designated areas: the play structure area, the vegetable garden, my office, my aviary bed, as well as five separate seating areas.

Towards the back of my garden is the play area for my daughter and her cousins.  My father built this play structure by hand many years ago when I first moved back home.

And yes, it still gets used.

My small raised vegetable garden, surrounded by a low stone wall built by my mother, is where I’ve grown beans, peas, tomatoes, squash and potatoes.  I’ve always wanted my daughter and stepson to taste a freshly picked tomato or to experience the joy of digging treasures out of a potato patch.

To this day, my daughter still begs me to grow potatoes – which, of course, I do.
Throughout my garden are several different seating areas, including my main patio, a smaller patio and places to comfortably lounge.

I emphasize the word comfortably because I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been to a garden where there’s either no seating whatsoever or it’s uncomfortable at best.  Isn’t the point to sit down, relax and enjoy all of your hard work?  I’ve created this garden as a sanctuary not only for my family, but for wildlife as well.  I’ve been richly rewarded over the years by the many birds that have visited and raised their young here.  Each spring, I anxiously look forward to discovering the new places in which they’ve made their nests.

The jewel in my garden’s crown, however, is my office – lovingly built by my husband one summer when he was ‘in between jobs’.  Originally an old farm shed dating back to the thirties, this formerly windowless and somewhat depressing structure was initially cleaned up by my parents and turned into a place to have sleepovers when I was young.  Later in life, it became a storage unit for all of our junk, that would once a year magically turn into a ‘haunted house’ for my own kids’ Halloween parties.

After the haunted house was no longer needed, my husband graciously offered to transform it into my office.  The last thing I wanted, though, was something ‘new and shiny’ in my garden, so he carefully kept the remaining exterior while pitching the roof and added a myriad of antique windows that would somehow show up every few days.  (He originally agreed to install three, but I convinced him that seven would look so much better.)

I love this little space of mine and have filled it with memories of my past, things from my great-grandmother, grandmother, parents and cherished friends.

When beginning a design, nothing inspires me more than to sit at my desk while looking out of my windows at my garden, listening to my fountain and canaries sing away.

My garden isn’t a designer’s showpiece at all, but rather a designer’s diary.  It’s my heart and soul, a place to remember, a place to play, experiment and show my personality.

And I love it with all my heart.



Please take a moment today to stop by and tour the gardens of the other Roundtablers – its sure to be interesting!

Susan Morrison : Blue Planet Garden Blog : East Bay, CA

Pam Penick : Digging : Austin, TX

Mary Gallagher Gray : Black Walnut Dispatch : Washington, D.C.

Jocelyn Chilvers : The Art Garden : Denver, CO

Deborah Silver : Dirt Simple : Detroit, MI

Debbie Roberts : A Garden of Possibilities : Stamford, CT

Christina Salwitz : Personal Garden Coach : Renton, WA

Andrew Keys : Garden Smackdown : Boston, MA

Rochelle Greayer : Studio G : Boston, MA


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  • You have inspired me! I have read and taken notes on how you have displayed your harmonious wonderland! I am moving to a small beach cottage and will take some of your great planting tips, displays, bird advice etc etc! with me as I begin to form my own Harmonious Wonderland!! Cheers

    • I’m so happy, Beachykeen! I’m sure you’ll create a magical place by the sea – lucky you!!

  • What a wonderful garden you’ve created, carefully crafted with thought, desire, time and personal memories. It’s a joy. I love your description of your office. It inspires me to get cracking on my small shed which has been only a storage space for the last 4 years since I moved here. I think I need to print out your description and post it on my back door so I don’t lose focus of the direction that I now have with the shed.

    • Thank you, Barbara! I’m so glad you enjoyed seeing my garden. I lived with my dilapidated shed for years and years and am so glad I finally re-did it (and by ‘I’, I mean ‘my husband’ – ha!) When you begin yours, make sure to take lots of before photos – something I wish I had done. Best of luck with your project!!! 🙂

  • Wow, amazing post about an amazing garden. And how very enjoyable to see it in different seasons! Thanks for sharing.

    • Thank you, Townie! I wish the SFGS was in the fall so people could see the colors we have out here – they’d be surprised, wouldn’t they? Hope you’re having a good spring/summer!

    • Aw, thanks Christina! I think your garden is well on its way!

  • Dear Rebecca, your garden is a treasure. Robust! relaxed, and friendly, too. So personal. So many layers involving family and history. You said it so much better than I ever could. What makes it the garden you love best is the fact that it is yours. Designed, planted, and tended by you. You have a great eye. Thanks so much for the time you took to introduce your gardening self. Deborah

    • Thank you, Deborah. I think this has been one of my favorite posts that we’ve done and have so enjoyed reading about everyone’s gardens. Yours is truly one that I could happily live in, even though ours seem so very different. The other side of me longs for a serene, lush and ‘quiet’ garden like yours. But despite my own small rows of clipped pittosporum (substituting for boxwood, like yours) I still can’t quite get the ‘quiet’ part down. You are much more restrained than I! But I guess that’s what makes gardens so fun, right? No two are alike! Thanks for your kind words, I appreciate them.

  • Yep, you just described exactly why *I* like your garden so much, and I know you totally get why it’s so hard for me to explain mine. Maybe when I’ve lived in my garden as long as you have in yours, I’ll find its vision(s?) will be more easily and readily articulate-able!

    • I don’t know, Andy. Writing this post was awfully hard for me – took me forever! I think no matter how long you live with a garden, it’s just plain difficult to explain to others what you’re thinking when creating your own garden without people thinking you’re a bit nutty!

  • Loved the personal story in this post.
    People and memories are such important elements in gardens!
    Thanks for sharing

  • Let me respond to Mary’s question as to how Rebecca gets her guests to leave – sometimes she doesn’t! I love the garden she and Tom have created and more than once arrived expecting to stay one night but instead didn’t leave for 3 days! Beautiful as these photos are, they don’t do it justice. One of my all-time favorite gardens.

    • Thank you, Jocelyn. I’m glad you had the chance to visit my garden! Now I’m off to visit yours…

  • Like Mary says, yours is a garden to linger in, Rebecca. It’s so warm and inviting. What a treat to see so many new pictures of it!

    • One day, Pam, I’ll get to show you my garden in person and we will most definitely linger in it!!

  • Rebecca,
    Yours is the kind of garden where (even though you say it is small) I just know I could spend hours ambling around looking at everything. It is beautiful, welcoming, intimate, warm…how do you ever get your guests to leave? And I looooooove your office. I’d always thought I wanted a conservatory, but after seeing those pics of your office I think I’ve changed my mind. Thanks for the awesome tour!

    • Thank you, Mary, I’m so glad you’ve enjoyed touring my garden. I can’t emphasize enough how much I love my office. It’s really only an office for about 50% of the time. The other 50% it’s my chick-shack where I hang out with my daughter or girlfriends. If I ever seen my house I need to figure out a way to take it with me! 🙂


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